people now turn to AI for emotional support
of users say the attraction audit revealed patterns they never saw
to understand why you choose who you choose
most people fall into one of 6 dating patterns. find yours.
every broken pattern has a healed version. here's what the journey looks like.
from
the unavailable artist
to
the present creator
passionate AND present
from
the hot/cold
to
the steady flame
consistent warmth, not chaos
from
the fixer-upper
to
the mutual supporter
partners, not projects
different face, same chaos. you swore off "that type" but somehow ended up here again. it's not bad luck—it's a pattern.
butterflies aren't always good. that electric connection? often it's your nervous system recognizing familiar dysfunction.
you've done the work. read the books. gone to therapy. but you still end up in the same situation. there's a missing piece.
free chemistry check first. then week 1 of the audit (also free) uses that data to show you your pattern.
week 1
pattern recognition
map out your relationship history. uses your chemistry check data for better insights. free.
week 2
childhood blueprint
trace your attraction pattern back to its source. (spoiler: it started early.)
week 3
attachment style
understand your wiring. why you chase, why you run, why you freeze.
week 4
chemistry vs anxiety
learn to tell the difference. "exciting" and "safe" aren't mutually exclusive.
week 5
compatibility override
build your personal framework for evaluating people—before you're too deep.
week 6
new patterns
rewire your instincts. date differently, for real.
someone caught your attention? describe them. we'll tell you if they match your pattern—before you're too deep.
pattern match detected. proceed with caution.
mixed signals. worth exploring, eyes open.
doesn't match your pattern. give them a real chance.
the voice you meet inside the app is the same you see here. no fluff. no platitudes. real talk.
before you get attached, run a free chemistry check. we'll tell you if they match your pattern—before you're too deep.
do week 1 of the attraction audit (free). it uses your chemistry check data to show you who you keep choosing and why.
join the community. share wins. get support when you're tempted to fall back.
"I finally see it."
"I thought I just had bad luck. Turns out I've been choosing the same emotionally unavailable person for 15 years. Different names, same wound. Week 2 wrecked me (in the best way)."
"The Chemistry Check saved me."
"Met someone on Hinge. Felt that familiar spark. Ran a Chemistry Check and it said 'pattern match detected.' I almost ignored it. Three months later, my friend dated him. Disaster. The AI was right."
"I'm finally dating boring."
"I used to call my ex 'passionate.' Turns out I meant 'unstable.' Serenity taught me that calm isn't boring—it's healthy. Currently 4 months into the healthiest relationship of my life."
"Attachment style revelation."
"Anxious attachment with an avoidant-magnet pattern. Once I saw it, I couldn't unsee it. Now I catch myself BEFORE I spiral. Game changer."
"Worth every penny."
"$100 to understand why I've spent $10,000+ on therapy talking about the same relationships? Bargain. The attraction audit is what therapy couldn't do—show me the pattern in black and white."
"Pattern compatibility is real."
"Completed the audit, got matched with someone in Berlin who's done the same work. We both understand our patterns. It's the healthiest connection I've ever had."
connect with others doing the work. share your story. get support. celebrate wins together.
share stories, get honest feedback
your vulnerability is safe here
walked away? chose different? 🎉
unlocked after completing the attraction audit